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SMS (much more serious and damaging to our wellbeing than PMS) happens when a woman dumbs herself down so as not to offend the man in her life.
It is something we learn to do at a very early age, because women are born smarter than men. Girls consistently did better in the 11-plus than boys.
The failure is in thinking that a disdain of superior intellect is a one way street, men to women. While it’s true that a man may prefer to be smarter or make more money than his significant other, it works the other way as well.
I know a lot of smart, funny, outgoing girls who never date men of their intellectual caliber. “I like the strong, silent type,” or “he’s really chill,” or “my boyfriend is really down to earth”…it’s all quaint slang for “My boyfriend is hot and I don’t let him talk a lot.” In fact, as of 2009, 33.5% of wives made more money than their husbands, and the percentage of women making more than their boyfriends is slightly higher.
So I find that some intelligent women make the following mistakes when it comes to attracting and interacting with men.
What we do know is that even the smartest women do some dumb things when it comes to love.“I’ve been told by well-meaning relatives: ‘Don’t talk about work on a date, dumb it down, and it’s bad to earn so much money because guys will be scared of you.’ And I got the word ‘intimidating’ a lot,” said Alexis, a 35-year-old lawyer in San Francisco. Nearly half of single women believe their professional success is intimidating to the men they meet.